Dil Dhoondtha hai....

Kitni girhein kholi hain maine, kitni girhein ab baaki hai,

paao mein payal, baahon mein kangan, gale mein hansli, kamar band, challe aur bichue,

naak kaan chidwaayein gaye hain, aur zevar zevar kehte kehte,

reet rivaaj ke rassiyon se main jakdi gayi , uff kitni tarah main pakdi gayi - Gulzar.

I was truly elated when I heard the news that Gulzar Saab was chosen for the prestigious Dada Saheb Phalke Award this year. Call it pure coincidence, but when I saw the pictures that were shot for this post back in March, I instantly thought of Gulzar, the revered poet, lyricist and writer of soulful poetry. Today, I am saluting this man of the moment by quoting a few lines from his poems along with the works of my creative friends - Sankeerthi Aipanjiguly and Shailaja Iyer, who have undoubtedly added beauty to his lines.

The chirping birds and the crowing roosters had woken me up earlier than usual. With a cup of hot filter kaapi and my laptop in hand, I decided to head to the garden to jot down my thoughts for this post. Mangalore, my hometown, had celebrated the first rains of monsoon yesterday and the sweet smell of the soil that comes with the first rain still lingered. The raindrops from the previous night had formed a thick pearly coating on the lush foliage. Amidst the greenery, sipping my first sip, I let my memories roll…

SANKEERTHI AIPANJIGULY: Owner - Rabbit out of the hat.

“‘Rabbit out of the Hat.’ Why such an unusual name for a jewelry line, Sankeerthi?’ I quipped. ‘Why not Jayuakka?”
“It’s a magician’s favorite trick and moreover, the magic of finding something new and something extraordinary in the trick is inevitable, isn’t it?” she retorted.
“Yes, my little sister, I agree completely and I have to give it to you for this one,” I beamed.

Folks, my heart swells with joy to introduce my cousin Sankeerthi’s (Ex- NIFT faculty, stylist, and costume designer) stunning vintage/tribal jewelry line “Rabbit out of the Hat”, where every piece has a different origin and an untold history behind it. Sankeerthi, along with her older sister who is an avid traveler, started collecting rare pieces of antique silver jewelry. Soon, her passion became her profession and her jewelry line was born.
I am sure you’ll enjoy collecting these rare, vintage silver pieces as much as I do. Come experience the magic of finding them with me!

CONTACT Info: One can buy her jewelry by messaging her on her Facebook page “Rabbit out of the Hat” or emailing her at magicoffinding@gmail.com. 
She holds exhibitions all over India and operates mainly out of her home. Worldwide shipping is also available.

SHAILAJA IYER: Founder - "Shruthi - Laya"

I met Shaila at a common friend’s house a few years ago and amidst many women in the crowd, she just stood out. Tall, dusky, and uniquely beautiful—I wanted to know more about her. Soon, I realized that she was the founder of the Carnatic music school “Shruthi Laya”.

Having modeled for me in my fashion shows, Shaila is my favorite model. When I decided to do a post on cotton saris and silver jewelry, I couldn’t think of anyone else but her.

Though she started her teaching career in 1995 in India (Bangalore, to be exact), she continued to pursue it while living in Malawi for many years. Shaila currently lives in Illinois and is still teaching at her music school.

MAKE UP -STYLING & CONCEPT - Jayashree Rao

SAREES - Nextiles ( most of the sarees seen here are priced between Rs 3,000 to Rs 3,500)

JEWELRY - Jayashree rao's personal collection from Rabbit out of the hat.

MODEL - Shailaja Iyer

Vintage Gokhru cuff from Sindh province in Pakistan.

Ek Puraana Mausam Lauta, Yaad Bhari Purvayi Bhi

Aisa To Kam Hi Hotha Hai, Wo Bhi Ho Tanhaayee Bhi ......

A Nextile silk blend saree in Midnight blue & red, here I have paired it with a Masaba Gupta blouse.

A pair of early to mid 20th century traditional Jhumka from Rajasthan, The earrings have originally had ear plugs attached but normal gauge wires have been added to the earrings.

New beautiful handmade repoussé silver jhumka designed and inspired by traditional Rajasthani jewelry .

Old bracelet with spectacular work from South India.

Mera Kuch Saamaan Tumhare Paas Pada Hai,

Saavan Ke Kuch Bheege Bheege Din Rakhe Hain,

Aur Mere Ik Khat Main Lipti Raat Padi Hai,

Vo Raat Bhulaa Do, Mera Vo Saamaan Lauta Do.....

A black/olive Chatai noil ( short left over fibre of silk/ wool) with buttas all over which is paired with a multi colored patch work blouse.

A Vintage Akota earring from Gujarat

Antique beautifully etched markharas in a square pendant from South India strung with hand twisted vintage gungroos.

Mera Dil Jo Mera Hota

Palako Pe Pakad Lethi

Hontohn Pe Uthaa Lethi

Haathon mai khudaa Hota

Meraa Dil.....

A Hotpink/ black Nextile noil  paired with a  green printed blouse.

A pair of jaw dropping antique finished jhumkas silver jhumkas with vintage chain of balls.

Vintage Haath phool or Slave bracelet from Gujarat.

Haath chhute bhi toh rishtey nahi chhuta karthe,

Waqt ki shaakh se lamhe nahi toota karthe ....

A Red/mustard Chatai Noil paired with a printed yellow blouse.

Don't miss the reed that is seen on Shailjas hair. A lovely impromptu touch by Karthika.

Katra katra milti hai

Katra katra jeene do

Zindagi hai, bahne do

Pyaasi  hoon main, pyaasi rahne do.....

In a parrot green Nextile noil ( it comes with a striped blouse)

Vintage 5 layer hand crafted Miao /Hmong traditional tribal torque.

Thoda hai, thode ki zaroorat hai, 

Zindagi phir bhi yahaan khoobsurat hai - Gulzar

JOIE DE VIVRE!

Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof,

Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth,

Clap along if you know what happiness is to you,

Clap along if you feel like that's what you wanna do,

Because I am happy....

On a lazy sunday afternoon I felt like a child all over again when I danced to the Pharrell Williams song along with my Sundari. She was my teacher and I was her student. There were flips, Charlestons and shimmys in her choreography. Tossing her hair and clapping her hands, she jived - carefree and happy. Her innocence and exuberance permeated the air and I paused for a minute to catch my breath and savor my moment of joy....my "Joie de vivre"!

This is just one small example but imagine how many such simple joys life throws at us and we fail to acknowledge them because we are so caught up with the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Life wears us down and we forget to live in the moment. We are either bogged down by our past or we worry

about the future, thus completely forgetting our present. So this post celebrates life by recognizing those special moments and making time to savor them.

Last month I was reading Jamie Cat Callan's best seller " Bonjour Happiness- secrets to finding your own happiness" and I sensed how much I could relate to the stuff that she mentions in the book and it was then that I mentally started jotting down my "Ahhh - life is good" moments.

* However narcissistic I may sound, I strongly believe that it's very important to love yourself. I have realized that when you love yourself and life in general, you will end up doing everything with love. Even the most mundane things like drinking your morning cuppa will be a joy and you will start relishing it like it's your last cup of coffee on earth.

* After many years, I cooked something gourmet for MYSELF ( read made from scratch butternut squash ravioli topped with brown sage butter and caramelized walnuts). I sat on the couch, put my feet up, inhaled it's aroma, enjoyed it's texture and relished every bite of it. It was certainly one of the many moments of joy in my life.

* So what if it took me an hour and a half to eat a small order of Lao-Mein noodles with chopsticks? I still challenged myself to finish it, because it gave me a sense of accomplishment and I felt good about it. Treat simple things like treasure - Jamie Cat Callan has rightly said in the book.

* Every day is special, so why not feel and look special everyday? Why do we have to look our best only on special occasions? "Red lipstick" does the magic for me. It perks me up instantly, makes me feel powerful and sexy. Wearing one and walking confidently is my all time Joie de vivre.

* How many of you remember Alia Bhat in the ‘pataka guddi’ song from the movie ‘Highway’, inhaling fresh air from a moving truck with her mouth wide open? I liked that particular moment in the song so much that I tried it out many times and loved how it felt.......quite a refreshing feeling it was, a simple moment that made me happy.

* Well, the list is endless, be it sitting by the window and watching the rain or just looking at the full moon, writing letters by hand to my dad or making time to call and tell my friends how much I love and appreciate them, collecting original art or flipping through the pages of VOGUE magazine, admiring my newly grey strands without fighting them or cooking with fresh ingredients........life offers small but happy moments in abundance. It's just that we need to count our blessings, feel grateful for the things and people in our lives and cherish those moments that makes us really happy.

What makes people happy? I wanted to know. I am sure each person finds happiness in his/her own way but I found it quite intriguing to know the perspectives of some of my creative friends from all over the world who have influenced me in some way or the other. When I requested them to be a part of this post they agreed immediately and sent these pictures to me sharing their "ahhh, life is good" moments just for Sage&Slingback!

VIJAYSHREE SINGH: Sub- Editor, The Telegraph, Calcutta

My super confident, happy go lucky friend from Calcutta is always up for new challenges and she finds her Joie de vivre in TRAVEL. Our passion for fashion and Bollywood got us together.

In her own words: "Nothing makes me happier than being in a new place, meeting new people, being part of a different culture and trying the local cuisine".

DIVYA THOMAS: Owner/ designer of Karmasuthra

She looks like million bucks and is known for her bold and intriguing designs from her famous jewelry line "Karmasuthra". She lives in Cary, North Carolina and her joie de vivre is her Peekapoo, LOLA. ‘Lots of love always and it's unconditional’... she says.

KALYANI GANAPATHY: Illustrator and book designer

I fell in love with her paintings and soon started collecting her original works. When I asked her what her Joie de vivre was, pat came the reply "MOUNTAINS".

And this is what she had to tell me about her moment of joy: "I am a visual story teller, I draw stories about friends, strangers and myself. The mountains are my home. I love the fresh air, the ever changing colors of the sky, the vast expanses of forests and rocks, the chill in the breeze. Most importantly, the mountains remind me that I too am a conqueror, I've walked the arduous path to my summit and nothing is impossible".

FAWZIA AFREEN: A fashionista

My Madhubala lookalike friend is from Dhaka, Bangladesh and is a huge Sabyasachi aficionado. This stunner always stands up for a cause and never misses calling ‘A spade a spade’. When asked her about her ‘Ahh .... life is good moment’, she said with a smile, ‘wearing my gorgeous Sabyasachis and watching James Bond movies makes me very happy’.

Yes, it's all about simple pleasure in life folks!

ANNA SEN: Owner/ director - Rhythmax Dance

My fitness guru, my dear friend Anna believes in keeping it simple. "SIMPLICITY" is her joy.

I quote her here:

" I don't color within lines nor reside within a box many a time but that's not rebellion or wildness. It's independence and creativity, it's freedom, it's letting your spirits soar with simplicity and finding that inner sunshine amidst life's unique dance".

VANDANA & I

I call her my "Annie Leibovitz" as she loves portrait photography and always comes up with new ideas for posing. Her love for photography and my love for fashion & decor amalgamated into this fun photo-shoot in April 2012, resulting in the idea of my own fashion blog. The album "Joie de vivre" was well appreciated and "Sage&Slingback" was born.

On a bright winter afternoon, over a few cups of chai and some creative brainstorming, a fashionista and a shutterbug discover their "Joie de vivre".

I staged my house and we experimented with 4 different looks on that afternoon in a span of 3 hours. Sharing the excerpts from the album....

THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA:

UTSAV:

MUGHAL -E - AZAM:

CHARULATHA:

Today is the best day ever, because it's all you have and that's a blessing. Past is gone, let it go. Future is promised to no one, so quit worrying. This moment, this breath, this life, it's perfect and it's enough!